How to improve speaking skills

Speak clearly

Enunciate and choose a volume as if it were on purpose. Select the easiest words to get your point across. Only once you’ve mastered clarity should you begin to braid some silvery strands into your language.

Challenge: Third Time’s the Charm

I’ll give you a topic and the moment you see it you’re going to speak for about 20 seconds. I don’t care what you say. Once you’ve finished, you’re going to think about what you just said, and express it more clearly. Then, you’re going to do it one more time. The third time’s the charm.

Remember to start this challenge right away.

Your topic is: Pasta.

Develop FlowSpeak clearly

Imagine a river. The water is moving; it runs around rocks and over the ground beneath it. It’s disturbed by the legs of a bridge. To you, though, it looks smooth.

I doubt that the river learned how to flow, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t.

With flow we’re aiming at a level of comfort with speaking that lets you approach all topics with equal grace.

There are two aspects of flow that I’d like you to improve:

1. Pace

2. Pausing

I would tell you to replace all of your filler words with a two second pause.

A filler word is “uh” or “um,” or anything you say that is equivalent. For example I like the word “like” but I shouldn’t. Notice whenever you use a filler word, pause for two seconds, and then continue.

Challenge: The Topic Game

For this challenge you’ll need a timer and a source for topics. Try using these topics, or some other random topic generator.

Your challenge is to look at a word and speak about it for at least 60 seconds, focusing on your pace and pausing while you speak. You can tell relevant stories, relate it to your summer vacation, whatever works for you.

If 60 seconds is too easy, try two minutes or more. If you can’t stop using filler words, restart every time you use one.

Choose Your Mastery Topics

We’ve gone over how to improve speaking skills via Clarity and Flow. The focus was to fix some of the errors we were making and help us build a bit more confidence. The next steps let us build a stronger speaking strategies.

Let’s start by choosing Mastery Topics.

Mastery Topics are subjects that you’re interested in and passionate about. When you discuss these topics you naturally exude more confidence and excitement, and you’re more likely to draw listeners into your world. And, since you’ll be talking about your mastery topics so much, you’ll have all of the speaking nuances of the topics covered as well.

I’m passionate about living abroad, running a social skills business, general success, learning and food. And if I can I’ll pull our conversation over intto one of those topics and blow you away.

Challenge: A Master Of…

Let’s figure out what topics you’re passionate about. Give me a simple answer to each of these 5 questions:

1. What do you think about most?

2. What do you most often spend your money on?

3. What do you spend most of your free time on?

4. If you could do anything without a chance of failure, what would it be?

5. Without worrying about money, time or skill, what is your dream-vacation?

My answers were: Success, Food, Learning, Running a Social Skills Business, Living Abroad.

First we’ll sort them. Ask yourself, what is more generally interesting, Topic 1 or Topic 2? If Topic 1 is more interesting, ask yourself if Topic 1 is more generally interesting than Topic 3. Once you’re at the bottom of the list, add the most interesting topic to the new list.

My ordered list is: Living Abroad, Running a Business, Success, Learning, and Food. You should think that you can make the first topic on the list the most generally interesting. If so, let’s work on that Mastery Topic first.

Become a Topic Master

So you want to be a topic master? No? Well, make it your temporary day-dream.

Take a second to think about your everyday conversations.

Generally you fall into a topic that you’re comfortable with and your conversations follow similar paths. The why is fairly simple: we’re programmed to pursue pleasure–the same positive reactions to the same topics and jokes–and avoid pain–the potential shame of expressing an opinion that makes everyone around you uncomfortable.

There’s nothing wrong with this, but if we naturally do it all of the time we might as well do it on purpose. To add some flair to our speaking skills we’ll need to add some sub-topics to our Mastery Topic.

With these sub-topics we can practice our clarity, flow and style.

Challenge: What’s Interesting About…

You’ve selected a Mastery Topic and now you’re going to flesh it out. Ask yourself, “What’s interesting about THIS,” where THIS is your Mastery Topic. Keep going until you can’t think of any more, and then add one or two anyway.

Here are some examples for my Mastery Topic “Living Abroad”:

• Dream Life

• I really want to live in Los Angeles

• I thought of moving to Belize

• Why Live Abroad?

• Living in Toronto

• Living in China

• I want to go back and study Mandarin

• Living in London

• Living in Sweden

• Living in Oxford

Develop Style

Droning on in a monotone will never be interesting, no matter the quality of the content coming out of your mouth. The trick is to express those same words in a more appealing manner.

To do this, I suggest you emulate somewhere better than yourself.

“Men nearly always follow the tracks made by others and proceed in their affairs by imitation, even though they cannot entirely keep to the tracks of others or emulate the prowess of their models. So a prudent man should always follow in the footsteps of great men and imitate those who have been outstanding. If his own prowess fails to compare with theirs, at least it has an air of greatness about it.” – Niccolo Machiavelli

Consider these five skills and your ability to use them to create interest in conversation:

1. Volume

2. Pace

3. Gestures

4. Humour

5. Story-telling

With all of those skills, you use them to emphasize the words that you’re speaking. Sometimes they replace words. Instead of going on about these skills, let’s go over the challenge.

Challenge: Stealing a Style

Choose one of these skills: volume, pace, gestures, humour and story-telling. Now choose a professional speaker, someone you’d like to emulate and watch a video of them speaking.

Ask yourself, how do they use this skill? What one aspect of the skill could I steal for myself? Write it down and keep the video.

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